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Gift Ideas for Men
What he'd want but wouldn't buy himself, plus smaller-budget picks and a couple of gifts that aren't things at all.
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Let's settle the one thing first: give him what he wants but wouldn't buy for himself. Primer's writers say so outright, and a Parent Cafe thread about a man in his early 50s ends up in the same place. One poster there says he already has most of what was suggested and would rather not get more stuff, so time together can beat more things. Below, the ideas move from splurges down to gifts around $50 or less, then plain company. The list assumes a birthday or holiday gift. Prices change, so it leaves them out; check current ones before you buy.
Why these items are on the list
- Insulated tumbler or lowball glass. A forum poster reports Yeti is quite popular with men; the poster's husband was given a tumbler and a lowball.
- Portable camp stove or grill. One for the camping fan, though the poster flags it as on the expensive side.
- Double hammock. A pick for someone outdoorsy; the asker guessed the kids would end up using it in their rooms.
- Wine preservation system. Called over-the-top as gifts go; if the budget is tighter, cheaper, lower-tech systems exist.
- Sous vide cooker. For the one who likes playing in the kitchen; the poster bought themselves one.
- Wireless earbuds for running. Described as too pricey to buy yourself, but great to receive.
- Portable car air compressor. The poster calls it the Rolls Royce of portable auto air compressors, pitched as guys and garage toys.
- Chef's knife. One poster says you can find one under $100 on sale, though it suits a Japanese knife fan less.
- Leatherman multitool. One poster calls it a multitool for all occasions and links a Leatherman.
- Noise-cancelling headphones. Pricey, says one poster, who suggests them if he doesn't already own a pair.
- Craft whiskey or other craft liquor. Craft liquor, one poster says, is always much appreciated.
- Craft beer or good wine. If they drink, one poster says, these are popular and often a splurge that might not be bought for yourself.
- Craft or boutique clothing. Per one poster, they and their partner swap boutique clothing items, such as craft t-shirts.
- Gloves, scarf or wallet. Gloves, scarfs and wallets are on the original poster's list of gifts already given.
- Handmade gift, around $50. Primer collects 10 handmade picks at about this price, including custom work from around the world.
- Stocking stuffer, $20 or less. Primer's budget tier for a tight holiday, with five small options under this cap.
- Cooking or photography class. The original poster has given this one too.
- Day trip or guided tour. Also among the poster's past gifts; the poster notes event tickets bring logistics that are too complex.
- Dinner or drinks together. Several posters say time and attention mean more to them than more things.
- Birthday dinner party or barbecue. One poster suggests one group celebration, with a barbecue if the weather suits.
- Letter of appreciation. Primer suggests this for a father: write down what he did and what it meant to you.
On your phone, tick the ideas that fit and leave the rest, and keep the list handy for when the budget question comes up; if you're shopping with a sibling or partner, you can split the splurges and the small gifts between you. It's satisfying to watch the shortlist take shape as you go.
When to use it
Come here when a birthday or holiday is on its way and you'd like an idea you can order and wrap.